Kidfree & Lovin’ It!

The Complete Site for Living

as a Happy Non-Parent


Have you grown apart from friends who now have kids? Are you tired of hearing “When are you going to have kids?” and the ensuing “You’ll change your mind.” Perhaps you’re just looking for like-minded people who know that procreating isn’t the be-all end-all in life? You’re not alone.

Being “kidfree” is more than a choice, it’s a positive mindset. While over half of non-parents surveyed (53%) have never wanted kids, the rest of us either weren’t sure, hadn’t thought about it, or (at one time) thought we wanted them and later changed our minds.

Perhaps you didn’t choose not to have children, but circumstances (inability to conceive, not finding a partner in time, or finding an unwilling partner) have brought you here. You are “childless” if you are upset by this and feel life has dealt you an unfair hand. You are “kidfree” if in hindsight you are glad about this, and rejoice at the freedom and experiences life has brought you.

Kidfree & Lovin’ It is a book that examines all aspects of non-parenting. The heart of the book revolves around the Kidfree Survey findings from over 4,700 non-parents in  75 countries around the world, as well as findings from the Childfree Dating Survey, which has received over 1,500 responses to date regarding being childfree and single.

These two surveys are open, and we are gathering research for the first edition of Childfree & Single and the 2nd Edition of Kidfree & Lovin’ It.

Click around this site to find lists of childfree organizations, blogs and websites, as well as articles, books and resorts for those of you who are “on the fence” and those who are decidedly. . .”kidfree & lovin’ it!”



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Welcome to Kidfree & Lovin’ It!

Kidfree Quote of the Month

“I don’t know why women need to have children to be seen as

complete human beings.”

~Marisa Tomei

actress from Brooklyn, NY

Click here to take the 
Kidfree Survey
Results to be posted in 
Kidfree & Lovin’ It! -Revised Edition
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 Childfree Dating Survey
Results to be posted in the book 
Childfree & Single
& Lovin’ It!
in paperback
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